Misunderstandings

It grieves me when a fellow believer chooses to not walk in the way of the Lord. When they go off on anything without having a true understanding of what was done or said. That happened recently. We had two people leave our group because of a misunderstanding. One guy decided to get mad at something he misheard. Talking to him does no good because he holds grudges. Is this guy a real christian? I don't know. I hope so, but his actions have always said otherwise. I pray he finds the true love of Jesus Christ and will learn to let that shine through. God calls us to be slow to anger. Slow, not fast. I have never gotten why someone would call themself a christian but never show it. I want to show the world why I am so different. I want to be different. I want to honor my Father, the one who gave me true life. Yes sometimes I am quick to anger but it is something the Lord is working on and I am getting better at. That is why I walk away instead of starting something. The whole thing baffles me. Before you get all ticked off make sure it is over something real.